Thursday, May 9, 2013

Joshua's 2nd birthday and more!


Since our last post, we've stayed pretty busy - although the weather has been crazy!  It's supposedly springtime, but we have had more winter weather than spring weather.  It even snowed on Joshua's 2nd birthday, on May 2nd!  We were at home all day anyway because the boys have been trading fevers for the past three weeks.  We think it's just viral, but it's definitely been putting a damper on our plans.  Noah and Evan have actually only gotten to play soccer three times this season.  Three of the games have been cancelled due to weather and are starting to be rescheduled.  They did go to the dentist one day after school, and then we had a special afternoon and went to see the movie The Croods.  They loved it!  We've been out to dinner with Brian's family, Brian and I ran a 5K to benefit The Marian Hope Center, we went to the Lee's Summit Kite Festival (our third year in a row), and have played outside A LOT!  If the weather is nice, we are usually outside playing.  The boys still love to play with our next door neighbors Abby and Ryan.
We turned Joshua's carseat around on Thursday, April 25th. He really likes facing forward now!


Joshua turned 2 on Thursday, May 2nd.  As I mentioned above, it was snowing and very cold that day, so we mainly stayed in.  I picked up pizza for dinner and ice cream for dessert, and Joshua seemed to love it.  We gave Joshua his gift from us that afternoon.  It is his very own Toy Story couch!  All three of the boys like to lounge on it and watch television.  That evening, Grandma Mary and Grandpa Mike came over to visit and give Joshua one of his birthday presents (a Team Umi Zoomi remote controlled car!).  We got to have Joshua's birthday celebration with family and friends that following Saturday at 11:30am.  We had Goodcents' sandwiches, pasta salad, chips, veggies, fruit, a Toy Story cake, and ice cream.  Everyone seemed to have a great time!  The kids even got to play "Pin the tail on Bullseye" and catch candy from a piƱata.  Joshua got lots of great gifts, including tank tops for the summer, a new spring jacket, a Buzz and Woody blanket, his own soccer goal, new shoes, cars, a Toy Story outdoor chair, and much more!




















The next day, we celebrated Dommy's 1st birthday!  They had a Cinco de Mayo fiesta at their house and Dommy seemed like he had a lot of fun eating, opening his gifts, and eating his birthday cake.  He turned 1 on May 1st.  
Other than all of the busy family time, we are also getting ready for my surgery (prophylactic bilateral mastectomy with diep flap - abdominal tissue - reconstruction).  It is a little less than three weeks away, and I'm almost finished with all of my pre-surgery doctor's appointments.  At this point, I am anxious and nervous, but also very ready to get it all over with.  We have had so many people offer to help out while I am in the hospital and recovering at home, and that is awesome (warning: we will probably take you all up on it :))!  The actual date of surgery is May 28th, and I should be home around June 2nd.  Total recovery time is about 6-8 weeks before I feel like myself again.  Thoughts and prayers are appreciated :) I have already registered Brian, my dad and I up for the Race for the Cure on August 11th, and it is my personal goal to be able to jog it.  I'm looking forward to it!

As far as the boys' development, they're all doing fantastic!  Joshua's vocabulary is still exploding and his sentences get longer and longer each day.  He loves to look at books, do puzzles, color, and do pretend play with all of his toys.  He fights with Noah and Evan over toys a lot, but they are learning to share.  Noah and Evan are also doing great.  Noah still loves to color and can write his name very well pretty consistently.  Evan likes to color as well, and can write his name well too.  He also loves to play with the iPad.  They all like to be outside; Evan and Noah are learning to push themselves on their swings, and also like to drive their Lightning McQueen Power Wheels around in the front.  Life is good here at the Quirk household.  

Sunday, February 17, 2013

Winter 2013

If I had one word to describe the Quirk household since Christmas time, it would be SICK!  In mid January, we all traveled to St. Louis for a great family-fun-filled weekend where we got to visit our Grandma Kay and also celebrate our Grandpa's birthday with most of our St. Louis/St. Charles family.  It was a lot of fun!  John, Theresa (and kids), Mark and Sarah (and Dom), and our family all stayed at a hotel on Saturday night.  We hung out for a while that night and then on Sunday morning, we all got up to have an awesome breakfast and then went for a swim in the hotel pool mid-morning.  We all dispersed and headed back to KC at different times that day. 
Evan at Dave and Busters

Noah at Dave and Busters

Joshua at Dave and Busters

Hanging out in the hotel room
Everyone got home safely, but unfortunately, Mia and Joshua both got sick with a stomach bug in the middle of the night that night.  That is what started a several-week-long fight with that stomach bug that went through each of our households.  It was pretty terrible.  Most everyone got some form of it, and some people even got it more than once.  Thankfully, that "bug" left our family.  But then, a couple weeks later, another virus hit.  Each of the six cousins got fevers and pretty bad colds.  Each child was kept away from Grandma's house for at least a few days because of it.  Noah and Evan missed a day of school because of it as well.  Thankfully, most everyone is better now.  Brian unfortunately developed a sinus infection from the virus, so he is taking medication now to get over that.

Joshua and Evan sick with the first virus that went through our house :(
Honestly, because of all of the illness we've had, we haven't gotten out of the house too much lately.  We were able to go to our friends'/neighbors' house for dinner last weekend, but had to leave Joshua here at home with Grandma Mary so we didn't get their little girl sick.  Yesterday, we went to Grandma Cathy's/Tony's house for the February birthdays party.  Brian and I went to some friends' house last night, and Grandma Mary and Grandpa Mike stayed with the boys.

This morning, we went to church and then to Paulo and Bill's restaurant in Kansas for an awesome brunch with Grandma Mary, Grandpa Mike, Uncle Mark, Aunt Sarah, Dom, Uncle John, Aunt Theresa, Michael, and Mia.  It was so much fun spending time with everyone - and we were thrilled everyone was healthy!  This afternoon, we went to our friends'/neighbors' house to hang out while Brian helped our friend Eric brew some beer.

One really cool thing to report is that my longtime friend Clare Janet got engaged on New Year's Eve to her boyfriend Brian.  We are so thrilled for them and can't wait for the big day this coming October.  Clare asked me to be a bridesmaid, and I am honored to be a part of it!  Clare and Brian also asked Noah and Evan to be their ring bearers!  Noah and Evan are very excited!

On a pretty serious note, we had a little bit of stress the past couple of weeks as well.  I had a consultation with a general surgeon and plastic surgeon about my upcoming bilateral mastectomy and reconstruction that I have chosen to do because of my BRCA1 gene mutation.  I ended up doing two mammograms and a breast biopsy because they found something that they wanted to test.  I got great news Wednesday morning that the cysts were benign!  I didn't realize how stressed and worried I had been about it until I received the phone call.  I ended up taking 4 hours off of work that day and Brian and I celebrated by going out to lunch together.  Now I am just planning my surgery.  I'm looking at doing it some time this May (after Noah and Evan's spring soccer season ends).  Obviously I'll write about my experiences and keep everyone posted on my decisions.  I've already received so much love and support, especially from Brian, who has been my rock through this.

Now here are some more pics to enjoy of our boys being silly :)

Noah, Joshua, and Evan being silly

Joshua - a cool dude :)

Joshua/Raphael
Joshua/Cowboy/Ninja/Coke drinker?

Evan and Noah coloring!


Swinging outside in the winter!

Noah/Raphael

Evan/Donatello

Evan and Noah being very silly




Friday, December 28, 2012

Winter 2012

Wow!  What an awesome holiday and Christmas season we all had!  We have been so busy since our last post in October that I didn't have time to sit down and write a blog entry.  The boys are all doing so great.  Here are some things we did at the end of October (obviously, I keep this as a reminder of what we've done as a family and I like to keep track of almost everything.  Please don't feel bad if you don't feel like reading everything!):

- We all went to a wedding reception downtown
- We all went to Miss Mia's FIRST birthday party!
- Noah and Evan played their last soccer game for the season
- We all attended Uncle Mark, Aunt Sarah, and Dominic's Family Halloween Party
- Noah and Evan had a Halloween party at school
- We all went Trick or Treating in our neighborhood on Halloween

Iron Man (Evan), Thor (Noah), and Buzz Lightyear (MJ) 
 
The family getting ready to trick or treat (Joshua was The Hulk)


Here are some things we did in November:

-Our Parents as Teachers educator came over and assessed the boys - they're all developing very well!
-Brian went to his first Sporting KC game on November 7th
-Noah and Evan went to see their first movie in a movie theater on November 9th - Wreck it Ralph!  They LOVED it!
-We all attended a birthday party at a gymnastics center for our next door neighbor Abby.  It was "Jake and the Neverland Pirates" themed.  The boys had a ton of fun flipping and jumping in the foam pit!
-Noah and Evan had a Thanksgiving lunch at school on Friday, November 16th.  They took the mashed potatoes.
-We all attended a 50th wedding anniversary party for Brian's Great Aunt and Great Uncle (Auntie and Duane) on November 17th.  We took the boys to Crown Center afterwards and ate at Crayola Cafe.
-We got to go to Michael Jude's 4th birthday party on November 18th!  It was cars/race themed and the boys all had so much fun playing games.  Evan even pulled the string on the pinata that broke it!
-We had an awesome Thanksgiving.  We had my side of the family over for Thanksgiving dinner. Luckily, Grandma Mary did most of the cooking:)

Wreck it Ralph at Town Center Plaza








Noah, MJ, Gus, Evan, Joshua, and Charlie getting ready to play a game at MJ's birthday party


We've had some illnesses lurking around our household for the past month or so.  The boys all developed coughs around Thanksgiving, and Joshua even developed a case of the croup that landed him in the Children's Mercy Emergency Room the night after Thanksgiving.  He also had two ear infections within two weeks.  Basically, he was on two rounds of steroids and antibiotics all within one month.  He had gone his whole life with no prescription meds until this happened.  Brian also developed a terrible cough that turned into bronchitis.  He took himself to the ER on December 23rd and got steroids and antibiotics as well.  The doctor said it was a good thing he went because it could have turned into something much worse since he has asthma.  Knock on wood - I haven't gotten sick yet.

December was busy, but mostly right around Christmas.  We had our work holiday parties (mine and my Dad's was even at the same place at the same time, so we got to introduce each other to our coworkers).  For Christmas Eve, we made tamales and then went to church at 4:30 mass at St. Regis.  Then we hosted the Miller Christmas at our house at 6:30.  It was a success, and Noah, Evan, and Joshua got several new toys and some clothes.  Christmas morning, Noah, and Evan, and Joshua woke up to what Santa had left them...the Ninja Turtle sewer and van for Noah and Evan, and Bucky the Pirate ship (from "Jake and the Neverland Pirates") and a Toy Story race track for Joshua.  They also got several toys from us including Ninja Turtles dress-up sets (all 4), a super hero poster, a plush Jake toy, and new toddler bedding for Joshua.

Noah with his first snowball of the year!

Evan playing in the snow

Joshua taking it all in

Handsome Noah and Evan getting ready for their school Christmas program

Joshua with Jake on Christmas morning

Raphael (Evan) and Donatello (Noah) on Christmas morning

Raph!  

Leonardo (Noah)

Joshua, Bucky the ship, and Daddy on Christmas morning

Mia and Joshua enjoying Christmas dinner

...and the end of the day attempt for a grandparents/grandkids picture :)

Christmas day, we went to the Quirk Christmas at Uncle Pat and Aunt Debbie's house at 1pm.  We then went to Grandma Mary and Grandpa Mike's house for the Sonderman Christmas at 4pm.  The boys all got SO many new toys.  We ended up bringing more than two yellow trashbags full home - plus more that didn't fit in those bags!  Noah, Evan, and Joshua have had so much fun playing with all of their new toys.  They are very lucky!

Noah and Evan are doing great in school.  They love going there and seem to be starting to become more well-rounded individuals.  We get compliments from people about how good they are about sharing and being polite.  Their typical day at school consists of group circle time, snacks, and individual "work" time where they all work individually on whatever they are currently "mastering."  When I ask them what kind of work they did that day, they usually say things like "coloring work" or "painting work" or things of that nature.  Noah is becoming a coloring fanatic - actually coloring at a 4th grade level.  Evan likes to color too, and also look at books and do puzzles.  Their current obsession is the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles.  There is a new show on Nick Jr. that they watch every Saturday with Daddy (who likes it just as much as they do).  They had a Holiday program for school on December 20th, where they sang "Joy to the World."  They stood in the back row and didn't dance or sing, but it was still fun to see them up there!  They had no idea what to expect from a Christmas program, so we didn't expect much out of them :)

Noah and Evan playing with their ninja turtles
Joshua is still doing great too.  He talks more every day.  He loves Buzz and Woody (Toy Story).  He also loves "Mickey Mouse Clubhouse" and "Jake and the Neverland Pirates" (both shows on Disney Jr.).  He can now tell Noah and Evan apart, and does call them both by their names.  He just started using Evan's name (although he's been able to say it for months).  He loves to sit and look at books and also likes to color.  He is still coming in to our bed in the middle of the night since he was sick for such a long time.  That's something we'll need to work on soon :)